Showing posts with label half term. Show all posts
Showing posts with label half term. Show all posts

Wednesday, 21 November 2018

A trip to Slad in search of Laurie Lee






A couple of weeks ago, during the half term holidays, we ventured to one of our favourite places. We took a spectacular walk through Woodchester park, a place we return to again and again, this time admiring all the shades of autumn. A wondrous display of leaves scattered Pollock style across the landscape and upon the floor making the most delicious of swishing sounds as our feet moved through their clusters. The day seemed cold, only for us to take off layer upon layer, undecided about whether to leave coats off or on, a true sign of our mild start to the autumn season. This trip, we finally decided to make the trip to Slad to visit The Woolpack. The Woolpack is a freehouse immortalised by the writer Laurie Lee who lived and died in Slad and wrote of his childhood spent in Gloucestershire. We have spoken often of visiting but somehow have never got round to it even though it is a mere fifteeen minutes away from familiar haunts of ours. As I remember now, it wasn't the easiest of days. The thirteen year old  and the ten year old were hard work. It is the bickering phase, perhaps one of my least favourite spells. Whilst sat in idyllic surroundings, drinking our cokes, munching on crisps, listening to locals relaying farm talk and how they were 'done for the day' and feeling extremely English (in the best of ways) sat gazing at the open fire and breathing in the perfect scent of a combination of wood burning and ale and hot pies, I resorted to swapping seats with the ten year old to try and dissolve some of the tension. My husband and I glanced at one another and we whispered to each other how we might return alone another time and stay at one of the bed and breakfasts nearby and enjoy an evening of slow living in this inn. Of course, adventuring as a foursome is magic too even with the ebbs and flow which is always worth remembering. I was hugely inspired to leave my words here once more after our visit to Laurie Lee's resting place, in the churchyard just opposite his beloved drinking place. I hadn't really believed that I would be so impacted by this biography of his Cotswold boyhood. But there again, I never thought that I would fall so deeply enchanted by the Cotswolds. Childhood and legacy and moments and the passing of time, all so precious. It is wonderful to be reminded to depict the passing days in words and pictures, to leave some trace of the mood and current interests and concerns. Recently, my sons and I trawled through some old posts here and we were all struck by we were quickly transported back in time to earlier days, lovely, simple and ordinary days. Sometimes the ordinary becomes magnificent with the passing of time and the memory of times that will never return again. So, here is an ode (of sorts) to those who have gone before, those who inspire and those who grow and go on to become their finest selves, this is our hope.  
















Tuesday, 28 May 2013

Half Term














Sometimes pictures don't tell the truth, sometimes they tell nothing but the truth. I can't lie. Someday, far, far away I want to look back here and remember not only the snapshot moments but also the intensity of this period in our family life. Quite simply, my boys are crazy right now and therefore by default hubby and I are crazy right now too. I mean the kind of crazy that upon opening their eyes from waking up, I can hear through the wall one of them say things like 'right, let's arm wrestle' or 'hurry up before mum hears' or family forbidden words usually 'idiot' or 'I hate you'. It's all normal stuff but their contact sport shenanigans, their bickering, their laughter that falls into tears, their needing to occupy the same space even when there is a pocket elsewhere in our teeny house, is none stop and it's pretty wearing. Just when hubby or I lose our minds and decide for the good of all men that we will separate them, they call longingly to one another like pining dogs and cast me him or me sideways glances that tell us very clearly that we are the enemy now! 

I'm moody and dramatic. My hubby is moody and dramatic. And yeah da darrrr, you guessed it those offspring of ours have inherited it too although thinking about it realistically, the force is still not that strong in them which is kind of what troubles me. What if? I say to myself, as I fast forward to the future and picture them as out of control, disengaged and unhappy youths! Dramatic? Me?

I don't normally like to express negative thoughts that relate to my kids in this kind of forum. I still have vivid memories of the occasions that my own mum revealed too much too publicly for my liking. I particularly remember when she told Aunty Mary Twigg about me taking a coin out of her purse (please note I still can't say 'steal') and another time when she rolled her eyes back into her head talking about my bedwetting (sorry mum, forgiven but not forgotten). It was hideous. I think I also remember conjuring up some ideas for revenge. I know I too will make my mistakes and I too will take my turn and have my offspring wishing hateful s**t on me, their mother and just like that, in the true style of a drama queen, I feel purged. I feel better. I can't lie. 

And when the times comes, far, far from now and I revisit these words, these feelings I want to remember also the goosebumps I feel each time I hear through the bedroom wall, those boys of mine exchanging the words 'I love you Zach, I love you Elliott'. Or how much I enjoy the slightly nervous smile of anticipation on my eldest boy's face whilst he queues for his favourite doughnuts and I know I'll keep that look stored in my head forever because it makes me feel both proud and protective all at once. How I routinely glance back from my front passenger seat when we're in the car to pucker up and throw a kiss in my youngest boy's direction and how he squints his eyes ever so slightly and offers me one in return followed by the sweetest, sweetest smile and I realise each time that he is my baby forever. These examples, these big little things are the specks of gold, the blessings, the gifts ... even the crazy stuff, even the driving me crazy stuff. And so, for a time far, far from now when perhaps I am no longer here a message for my offspring: Boys, I loved it all! The memorable stuff, the good stuff, the not so easy stuff and the downright hard stuff! I loved it all ... Mama x.